Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Have you ever felt this way before?
Have you ever wonder what does a Homo sapiens actually WANTS?
Humans are very subjective that they are NEVER satisfied..
Once they got hold of a gold..its still a gold but after few months, the gold is still a gold but it is just not as shiny and attractive gold as we used to view it before, isn't it?
SO the law of attraction in mankind, be it for a person or a thing..does applies the same way huh?
Say you saw a guy/a girl whom you think is suitable for you..after the chase and you get him/her with your bait..then things kind of starting to ware off as the other side already held your bait oh-so-very-tightly that you ain't need to use your strength to wind your fishing rod with effort, isn't it?
Then, you saw another larger more attractive fish..looking at the one occupying your rod, you dump that to give room to the new fish that you saw..
This, applies to things that we see in life too..
There are loads of fish in the flowing liquid..
But there are some who still hooked-on to the same fish although there are and forever will be more attractive fish in the sea due to the fact that human population and also the genetic variation will not stagnant..as long as mankind breed..
So why certain people able to resist the temptation yet there are so many around?
It all depends on what you're looking for isn't it?
Have you ever asked yourself what are you really looking for in accordance to get a TRUE other half?
If the looks, the physical appearances..
From my point of view, I'll back out..if ever someone falls just because of that..
So what if the person is a hunk/babe but like a piece of bacon internally?
So what if the person is good looking but too engrossed with himself/herself that neglected you by thinking that you're beginning to not to be able to suite his/her great looks no more?
So what if the person is handsome/gorgeous but treats you like dirt?
So if ever things were still able to maintain..you hold yourself..under that person's mercy but have you ever wondered what happens when the person begins to age?
Will you still want the very same person but has wrinkles, patches or scars?
You'll tell me: I'll get another attractive fish
So I called this: Temporary, untrue love?
If you're looking at the money..
So what if he has the bucks but personality sucks and also tucks himself with other girls?
So what if she has the bucks but being looked down upon on you depending on woman's money to live as the human norms unintentionally, accidentally made an informal rule that male should be the main breadwinner..
Can you handle the pain? Oh yes, maybe you can..because is the money you're looking for..
So what if the person at a sudden go bankrupt?
If you're looking for security..
Okie, so this is me..
Looking for something that is secure..
Addy once asked me:
What kind of security?
It made me ponder..
I've always ponder on security in the other half..but how exactly it should be?
Possibly,
Someone who will always be there when I needed..
Its NOT the fact that the person has to be 24/7 on standby for me..
No that whenever I dial his number, he has to dump whatsoever he is doing and take a flee for me..
At least I know where to reach for him when I'm trouble emotionally and physically..
This is rather subjective..
He at times does not has to be right in front of my eyes but at times a simple phone call will do.
Someone who is honest
As in no cover ups..be it about himself or about the things he had do or done..
Some says that they lie because they did want to hurt the other party's feeling because they know it sure to hurt the other party if the truth is being revealed..
But for me,
I think its more hurting to know that you, lied to me lagi-lagi about THIS matter that you know I WILL feel hurt about it than you telling it to me WITHOUT lying to me
I don't require you to ask for MY permission about meeting who, going where..
I just need you to tell me..that's all..with that, it all goes back to security, to be able to know where to reach out for you when in case I need to
Someone who understands..
I'm not asking you to analyze me till you can write a book out of me..
Hmm..
I don't know how to put this..
At times, you just have to know a few about the person you're with in order to create the give and take situation, isn't it?
I can't be the only 1 trying to make this relationship work..
Putting all efforts like going on extra miles and all just for him although at times there's a few obstacles hindering..
Likewise,
He can't be the only 1 trying to make this relationship work..
Putting all efforts like going on extra miles and all just for her although at times there's a few obstacles hindering..
So which are you? I daresay that NO ONE will never did not ever not putting effort at all in a relationship but how much is much?
Are you more of the receiving end or the giving end?
Well, this question is dully asked..
The actual one should be..
Do you feel like you're choking and gasping for air in this relation?
If you do, maybe its you're trying too hard..on your own but not reciprocated
Always giving and hoping for a return but it disappoints you most of the time..
To me, it doesn't matter who gives out more but to feel suffocating but clinging on or every time you gag in this relation?
Hmm, have you ever felt this feeling before?
I did.
And it hurts.
A lot.
I feel like someone squeezing my throat that clenched that
I..
I..
I can't take it no more
But you still favours the person..
But, what are you going to do?
You let go..?
Have you ever felt this way before?
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