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Friday, January 22, 2010
sudden pop up

I've came across a forum which discuss on What do interest guys when it comes to picking girls..

Is it looks?
Is it personality?

What the person wants to know is till what circumstances that made the guy made the first move to want to have the girl as his other half..

Most of them replied saying that guys definitely go for looks first

Another did mentioned the same thing too but inaddition of


face 1st.. then body.. those are for 1st impression.. after that character, attitude plays more important roles.

and someone replied in a different way..
Younger ones look for Beauties!
Older ones look for Suitability!
but i think most of the guys looking for Financial abilities...

A guy answered
Pretty face,Good developed body,Nice attitude,Always hear my order,100% loyal to me eventhough i am not to her.

To sum up
every man want not one but all three
1)Pretty face
2)Good body
3)Nice attitude

and many more..all i can say is..mist of them says they go for looks and the body (means the breast and all)..

Well, what i can say is..why not looking at yourself in the mirror first before judging the girl?I mean..there's no perfect girl in this world and definitely no perfect guy in this world..it depends on how you perceive it..

Another guy said
I think most guy won't forever satisfied to his gf or wife's appearance. When the stage you are going after a girl, you may feel that girl very pretty, very sexy, perhap very attractive. After you successfully approach her, you will start feel boring after couple of months and may think ofF your gf is not really beautiful or an ugly animal.

I'm personally prefer long attached relationship. So, I will go for character. No doubt, it take time to observe a girl. But I feel it's worth for it because she may be my life partner with such as good charater.

An advise to all guys - Appearance won stand last forever, after 40, all women are Aunty (No offend to girl). Those with big boob lagi teruk, You sendiri imagine on how papaya is look like.

To me, i think that is so true..
First you think she is great then at later times, you tend to pin point her this and that and blaming her not pretty and all.

So, what do guys really wants?

Its just like asking is the cloud looks the same as what i see in Malaysia compared to other countries..

Different people, different liking..

I've came across a guy who says that he thinks a girl with back and front but too skinny is a turn off..but some guys like skinny girls..so..its difficult to have a definite answer..

Some says that the girl has to treat him good and right..well, are you treating the girl right and good as well in return?

well, another person summarized it as
body > look > attitude for gf
attitude > look > body for wife

and another well said
I think at the beginning, a decent guy who is serious will also think of the 'sex' factor... decent guys are still a guy!! Lol!! But after a while, when they have watched us cry, sick, laugh, angry, pain, asleep, awake, shower, etc, I think everything boils down to the inside like kindness, understanding, patience, temper, etc. Because over a long period of time, no matter how beautiful we women are, it still bores them off.

Even if our boyfriends is Brad Pitt everyday, if we see them and catches all of their impressions, after 2 years... It will occur to us "OH, it's just Brad, not big deal..." But if it is his attitude / character that catches me, after 20 years, I'd still be impressed

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